Understanding Bisexuality: A Comprehensive Guide to Bisexuality 101

by | Mar 8, 2024 | Queer, Bisexual


Welcome to “Bisexuality 101,” your guide to examining the bisexual identity. Despite being the third letter in the LGBTQIA+ acronym, bisexuality often lacks the representation it deserves. According to the Williams Institute and the HRC Foundation’s research, approximately 50 percent of individuals within the LGBTQ+ community identify as bisexual, making it the largest subgroup. However, confusion persists about what bisexuality truly entails and its validity in our ever-evolving society.


What is Bisexuality?

Bisexuality isn’t a one-size-fits-all label; it’s a dynamic spectrum where individuals possess the capacity to form attraction and relationships with more than one gender. Renowned bisexual advocate Robyn Ochs defines bisexual as “The potential to be attracted—romantically and/or sexually—to people of more than one sex and/or gender.” It’s a unique and fluid experience, not confined to a specific time, manner, or intensity. Those identifying as bisexual often affectionately refer to themselves as “bi,” embracing the diversity of attraction across gender boundaries.


Common Misconceptions of Bisexuality


Myth 1: Bisexual People Are Only Attracted to Men and Women

Breaking the chains of the gender binary, bisexuality encompasses attraction to more than just men and women. It extends a warm embrace to non-binary and genderless individuals, challenging traditional norms.


Myth 2: Bisexuality and Pansexuality are the Same

Let’s clear the air: pansexuality and bisexuality are not exactly the same. While pansexuality transcends gender in attraction, bisexuality celebrates attraction to multiple genders. Understanding these distinctions is crucial for dispelling myths.


Myth 3: Bisexual People are Confused or Going Through a Phase

This harmful belief contributes to bi erasure and negatively impacts mental health. Bisexual experiences are not a phase or confusion; it’s a valid and real way of identifying. Dispelling these myths is vital for fostering understanding and acceptance.


Myth 4: Bisexual People are Greedy or Unable to Commit

Shattering stereotypes, bisexuality has no bearing on commitment or promiscuity. Individuals identifying as bisexual can engage in loving, committed, and monogamous relationships just like anyone else.


Are You Bisexual?

Are you on a journey of self-discovery? Consider these questions: Have you ever found yourself attracted to people of more than one gender? Does the idea of a spectrum of attraction resonate with you? Exploring your feelings and experiences can be a powerful step toward understanding your own sexuality. It’s okay not to have all the answers right away—embracing the journey is what matters most.



In conclusion, the bisexual identity is a rich and diverse spectrum that defies stereotypes and embraces the multifaceted nature of attraction. As societal awareness evolves, it’s crucial to challenge misconceptions and celebrate the validity of bisexual identities within the LGBTQ+ community. Embrace the uniqueness of the bisexual experience and join the ongoing conversation about the fluidity of attraction.


Bisexual Resources:

Learn more from The Trevor Project.

Explore the HRC’s Bisexual FAQ for comprehensive information.

Visit Bisexual Organizing Project for community support.

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