Sami Fong
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Adoption, Trauma, & Identity: What Queer Families Deserve to Know
I was adopted at 13 days old and am the second generation of adoption in my family. From the very beginning of our relationship, adoption...

New Year’s Resolutions Don’t Work the Way We Think They Do — So Why Do We Set Ourselves Up for Failure?
I’m not sure how everyone else feels about New Year’s resolutions, but as a mixed-race queer from a poor family, I’ve always had a complicated...

Thanksgiving in America is built on the trauma of our ancestors.
Thanksgiving arrives as a slow countdown in my body, long before the day itself. Right after Halloween, the clock starts ticking toward the trip I...